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Thursday, October 13, 2016

Lily @ 6 months!

Lily @ Six Months!







It seems like this was the lost month in my notes somehow, which is fairly unsurprising.  I remember that the transition from 5 to 6 months was very difficult with Hannah, really from 5 to 7 months and that of the "first year" that was my least favorite phase.  Part of me had always thought it was because it was at that exact time that we had decided to move from Jessup to Silver Spring and we were consumed with trying to find a place, boxing everything up and moving all while trying to give Hannah the attention I so desperately wanted to give her and while trying to adjust at a new job.  It was a lot and I always chalked up the 5-7 month range blur/depression with all of that.  But, even though Lily is an easier baby, and we've had a fairly "stable" life through these months, I have found the 5-7 month range to be most challenging with her as well.  It's a tough time - Lily wants to be mobile and independent, but isn't quite yet.  She can't fully express herself.  Teeth to start ripping through her poor sweet gums.  Between growing like a weed and her new found sitting up and military crawling skills she is RAVENOUS and unsatisfied and we are transitioning to adding in solids.  From 5-7 months is a really big shift in baby-land and during those two months, my sweet, non-mobile, snuggly baby, wants to be everywhere, into everything, and wants to explore the world around her...all while realizing that we are separate people, so mommy had better stay super close by while she explores...or continually hold her while she squirms and checks things out (which for mommy, is exhausting and limiting and helps me further develop my abilities to do nearly everything with one hand, while keeping the octopus a safe distance away from anything hazardous or messy).

At pretty much exactly five months, Lily gained her two, adorable, bottom teeth and started sitting up.  At six months she started military crawling and we started solids just before the six month mark after we reached a week when she was just hungry allllll.the.time and I just didn't have enough milk to meet her needs.  With both girls, 1-2 weeks before they start really crawling they go through a major growth spurt, it's pretty cool.

Not only are my 5-7 month old babies difficult in that they are grappling with early separation anxiety issues and restless for full mobility and nom nom nom hungry, but this is usually the saddest moment for me during the "first year."  There's something very sad about my babies suddenly transitioning (it's like overnight) from being dependent on me for entertainment and interaction as they love to lay in my lap and play with me to suddenly becoming obsessed with reaching for everything else, exploring everything else, etc.  The early baby phase fades away so suddenly, and both times around, it leaves me feeling extra sad for a month or so.

Oh my goodness, we love these girls!!!
But, this month was also marked with fun activities as well!  We visited local farms, assembled a really cool playground for the girls in the basement, and also took our first vacation as a family of four and enjoyed a weekend hanging out around the Shenandoah valley.  Our vacation was fairly spontaneous and impromptu, but it was just SO nice to get away and not worry about the dishes or cooking for few days, it meant that we could spend the time we usually spend maintaining our home/doing laundry having fun and exploring.  And, since we had no other option, forced us to brave some restaurants with the girls and get out a bit.  And one additionally funny thing - we crammed EVERYONE - two adults, two dogs, and two children with their massive carseats, a double stroller, and luggage all into our little Honda Civic.  We looked like a clown car, but it worked!
Six Hals in a 2001 Honda Civic
Heading into the caverns - we chose to visit one that could handle the stroller


They did great!  Hannah loved 95% of it and seemed to really like it until the last 10-15 minutes.  We escaped without any major meltdowns!  Lily quietly watched, wide eyed the whole time.  

Lily hanging out in a high chair on the porch at our rental cabin


Daddy & Lily
Hannah looking at a bee hive (with live bees) through glass)

looking at alligators
Enjoying a Shenandoah red while on our little family vacation

Daniel's assembly project, complete!  Hannah loves the girls' new "house"



She still loves trying to pat air out of his cheeks


Columbus Day walk through the woods
Enjoying Elioak farm
Elioak farm




something about this picture is "Hannah" to us 



Hannah was actually tickling Lily here, not throwing punches
Our family of four!  Hannah 2.5 years, Lily 6 months



Tuesday, September 13, 2016

Lily @ 5 months & Hannah @ 2.5 years! Our Octopus and Biiiiig Tiger


Lily @ 5 Months!

Our sweet Lily @5 months!

My sweet, snuggly, demure baby will be five months old in the morning and while she has been working towards it for a while, all the pieces have rapidly come together in the past week and she has truly shifted to the next phase of baby - a baby who is an ambi roller, who won't be in the same place she was when I put her down to grab my water.  A baby who doesn't just sweetly smile but erupts into a huge, expressive gaping grin that seems to stretch through her entire body as she reached out towards her big sister today in the hall this afternoon as I picked the girls up from daycare/preschool.  A baby who can sit up on her own for increasing periods of time and who loves to stand in the exersaucer, emphatically grabbing anything she sees and frantically trying to shove it in her mouth.  A baby who suddenly wants to reach for so much beyond me as she transforms into what I only semi-lovingly refer to as the octopus phase, which means I better have a lid on anything I ever want to drink and that if her dad and I are going to split a salad, I should expect her to rip things off my plate and dunk her toys in my lemon vinaigrette unless I eat across a great canyon kind of distance, holding a fifteen pound baby with one arm while I crookedly hunch-stretch to my plate in an attempt to gracefully shovel food into my mouth so I can continue to nourish my growing baby.   

*snap* - heyyyyy
she loves being outside!

and still sleeps harder than any of us.  ...Daniel texted me this picture from one morning while they were getting ready, with the caption "who IS this child?!?!"  She was happily playing and had just rolled over to nap while he was making breakfast for himself and Hannah
70% of me is so excited for her and the new adventures this will bring and what this means for her, proud of how far our family has journeyed together, thrilled that she is so healthy and strong and bright eyed.  8% of me has seen this coming all along and has knowledgeably spoken of this period and how once they are 5-6 months old it suddenly seems possible to leave them to work because they have suddenly become more interested in the rest of the world than dependent on their mommy to entertain them.  But 10% of me is devastated - I LOVE babies, omg guys, I LOVE the early baby phase, the mystery of it, the discovery in it, the beautiful simplicity of their needs... they may be demanding needs, but they are simple, and the thought of the snuggles-for-days that comes with it takes my breathe away.  8% of me is devastated and chokes up as I type that this unbelievably sweet early mystical baby phase has passed.  And 4% of me knows that part will still resurface over the next year or so, and I will find it in the quiet moments when my baby wakes in the night and needs me, when she doesn't feel well and wants to be snuggled, when she nuzzles in and naps in my arms, when she slowly wakes up on weekend morning, and that will have to be enough....because I also know all of the beautiful things she is gaining as Lily grows and blossoms.

our blossoming baby!
#dimplesfordays

Hannah and Lily have their own language now.  They speak in tongues.  Literally lol.  They “thuppppp” back and forth and squeal with delight when the other mimics it back.


Through the month, Lily learned to roll both ways more and more smoothly.  She loves blowing bubbles with her tongue and squealing.  She has really started to enjoy tummy time and has air-swims on her tummy.  Her face has really changed - suddenly seems much more that mid year, quintessentially cute and responsive baby.  And just at the end of the month, she was able to sit up on her own.  I knew she was working towards it...and on a Saturday morning she was sitting, back a little too rounded to fully support herself.  The next day, Sunday morning, her back was straight and tall and she was sitting up all on her own!  So amazing!


Hannah makes Lily laugh more than anyone else can.



Hannah expressions has coined some fun expressions/phrases lately -
  • "House is making a mess!!!" = earthquake scene in TV
  • "Holly kiss chocolate" = Holly licking chocolate ice cream off of Hannah



She's also been OBSESSED with her penguin matryoshka...this is "TINY" (which she will say in an extra high pitched voice for emphasis)

apple picking and climbing trees, a child after my own heart 
At 2.5 years, Hannah is vibrant, spirited, and amazing.  Her flavor of the month obsession is the Jungle Book - she LOVES the movie.  She has been talking more and more and more - she repeats almost every word you tell her and is continually asking “What's that?” “Who's that?” and “What're you doing mommy?”  She talked through the entire Jungle Book film asking us about the animals and what they were doing, repeating their names over and over.   On the way home today "noo nooo Lily kay-ing (crying), lily (should get) mommy milk ok?"  Her favorite character is "biiiiiiiig tiger" and we are pretty positive that is who she will be for Halloween...if the obsession keeps up, we're definitely going for it.
the cutest toddler in Harris Teeter

playing with a nearly walking baby Logan!
There’s a set of colored rounded objects that stack up vertically from largest to smallest.  Hannah can usually put a little of it together, but usually needs help.  Recently, when she asked for help, I showed her that the pieces were numbers 1-10 and would ask her what number comes next and we were able to put the whole tower together with numbers, it was really cool!

The is the most Hannah-esque pose ever and captures a glimpse into her daily spirit and activities
before even 2.5 she can pedal her tricycle independently
Hannah has also been enjoying puzzles.  My sister Alison had gotten her a book with 12 piece puzzles inside.  She needs help, but it holds her attention and we can spend time putting them each together.  At first, I had to do most of it, but would spend time explaining to her the logic behind how I placed each piece.  But frequently, as she fumbled through and did things her own way, I felt like she was never actually listening to my logic (like straight edge pieces go along the sides, two edges is a corner piece, etc).   The night Hannah turned 2.5 years old we did puzzles together (and I was paying special attention to all of her abilities since it was such a special, landmark day).  Not only did she initiate , but she started immediately evaluating all the different things I tell her (“there’s grass!” and then put it at the bottom of the puzzle, etc)  I was a proud humbled mom.  
Apple picking...while Lily tries to eat the leaves LOL

This pretty sums up the daily juggle...holding on with healthy, happy kids...but nearly losing my grip and laughing at myself all.the.time.



This month we also flew to SC for Emily's wedding.  The wedding itself went beautifully and Emily was a gorgeous bride!  But for our little family of four, flying down there and back and surviving the weekend was catastrophic.  ...Like...movie level ridiculous and probably merits a post all of its own or I will never believe it myself.  Let's just say delays, missing planes, traffic jammed runways, stomach bugs, eye infections, sprained wrists, and ZERO sleep...  But for now... here are a few quick highlights of the beautiful weekend -

On the tarmac bus heading to the plane
Meeting Grandma in the airport


snuggling with Uncle Michael

Heading to the rehearsal...ready to roll



Rolling to the rehearsal

Hannah's face says it all...it's been a rough rainy rehearsal evening and her injured wrist has left her less than happy

wedding day prep!  behind the scenes - Dr. Papa is wrapping Hannah's wrist, I'm topping Lily off before I get dressed, and we are all getting ready to roll





Hannah, sweet flower girl!













ZOMG we are FINALLY in the car at Reagan, heading home...